Father’s Day 父親節巡禮

Father’s Day 父親節巡禮

父親節快到了,思展團隊的成員和大家分享一些自己爸爸的小故事。

To celebrate Father’s Day, members of our Sagebooks Team share their personal stories with fathers.

我們的爸爸 Thank you, Dad!

Banny G

Guangzhou

那一年我在酒店做实习生,被分配到中餐厅服务。每天要站着工作快10小时,爸爸不想我下班还要挤公交回家,就提出接我下班。那年头,他开着的是一辆摩托车,每天在员工通道出口等我。但服务行业没有几天是正常时间下班的,必须等客人都走了,才能下班。他就在那一直等,等半小时一小时习以为常,最久那次我凌晨1点才下班,以为他走了,谁知道在老地方还是见到爸爸在,飞奔过去。有时还碰到下雨,他就穿着雨衣等。我说要不我自己回吧,你不要来接了。爸爸总说,女孩子晚上不安全。实习了半年,他就真的一直都在。 父亲的爱,总是含蓄的,不会什么言语表达,但行动胜于一切。为你做的,实在的付出就是他的爱。
Nicola L

Hong Kong

小時候曾經很害怕寫字,還記得那時候,爸爸一直很用心地教我寫字。可能因為我是左撇子的關係,一直都寫不好,但他用了很多心機和耐性來教導我 ,有時甚至拿着我的小手一筆一撇地教導我。

這個過程大概維持了差不多一個上學期,有一天,他終於按耐不住,拿起藤條裝腔作勢着要打我。但當然,看見藤條的我馬上拔足逃奔,哈哈!很有記憶的一幕。

如今角色轉換了,我已經成為一位母親,兒子也開始學寫字了,而我也一定會把爸爸給我的耐性和愛帶到兒子的身上。

謝謝我的爸爸!

曉君 D

Guangzhou

陪伴我长大的儿歌有点独特,大部分是当时的港台流行歌。

爸爸有很多音响和机器,常常在家中播歌,买了很多张学友、谭咏麟、邓丽君的黑胶唱片、CD、演唱会DVD。从四五岁开始,我就是这么耳濡目染,对这几个歌手的歌都熟透了,几乎是听到上句能唱出下句的程度,尽管年幼的我大概不明白「爱情陷阱」、「等你等到我心痛」是什么意思。

他会和我在家唱卡拉OK,有时还拿录音机录下我们唱歌的现场。现在还能从保留下来的几盒卡式磁带听到我几岁时稚嫩的声音。

爸爸喜欢古诗词,会用讲故事的形式给我讲诗词。有次一夜醒来,外面下过大雨打下很多花叶树枝,他即兴讲了李清照的《如梦令》,小小的我对「绿肥红瘦」这个形容印象深刻,觉得有趣又神奇。

现在我长大了,如果说在世俗现实中还能有一些浪漫和天真,应该来源于爸爸吧。

Ami W

Hong Kong

叛逆女孩的童年,從小就與爸爸的關係水火不容⋯⋯小時候最不愛聽嚴父的話,因為覺得爸爸太嚴厲了,又總是不能理解女兒的想法,每次父女對話都是吵架收場。直到長大後才明白,父親的愛從不在於言,而在於行。雖然父女之間未必能相互理解,但愛家人的心卻是無庸置疑的。

想起每一次回到家的夜晚,我總能看到爸爸坐在沙發上等我等到睡着的身影;飯桌上永遠都能發現每一個我曾經大讚好吃的菜式,這才懂得讓爸爸愛上廚藝的原因不是別的,是愛家人的心。記憶中,我從沒有對爸爸說一聲「爸爸,我愛你!」媽媽總說我們是相愛相殺兩父女,一模一樣的不善言辭。現在回想過去,或許我嘴上說不愛聽他的話,其實早就把爸爸的教導都放在心底。

萬千言語到最後只懂得化作一句感謝:謝謝爸爸一直以來默默付出的愛!

Debbie R

Toronto

One of my fondest memories with my father as a child was when he would receive our report cards from school. He would always say, “I know that you have worked hard for the reports & grades in those envelopes. When we open them, we will celebrate your hard work and your efforts. Today, the grade doesn’t matter, your efforts do, and we have seen you work hard every day.”

It always made me feel good about my efforts, and I carry that with me today. Even if a workday or a project doesn’t always go as planned, I celebrate my efforts and learn to move forward. I am thankful that he has taught me a powerful mindset tool.

Lucia L

Hong Kong

小時候,我的身體不好。四、五歲時還出現了眼疾,最後醫生說必須開刀。
手術的當天,爸爸請了假帶我去,陪着我進手術間,還一直說我比任何其他的小朋友都勇敢。手術無驚無險地順利完成了,我要做一個多星期的「獨眼船長」。
爸爸一向既慈愛卻又嚴厲,小時候從來不讓我隨便吃零食。
手術後離開醫院,爸爸問我想吃甚麼零食。
「巧克力。」我想都不用想就說了。
爸爸帶我去買了歐洲進口的最好的黑巧克力。爸爸抱着我,巧克力吃在我口裏,又濃又滑,帶着一點甘苦,那是我永遠都忘不了的味道。

直到現正,我還是對那傳統的、單純卻有深度的、帶着一點甘苦的黑巧克力情有獨鍾。

我愛爸爸!

用我自己的話,譜出對爸爸的謝意!

讓小朋友用自己的話語來表達對爸爸的敬意和愛心吧。

以下這個簡單的活動,不但表述了爸爸平日在孩子和家人朋友之間有着舉足輕重的重要,也可以讓孩子重溫學過的字,加強他們的語文表達能力。

Let us show our appreciation to Dad in our own words.

This activity uses words that your child has learnt in the Basic Chinese 500 course to form sentences that reflect the importance of Dad.

ACTIVITY OF THE WEEK

ACTIVITIY 1 - 我的爸爸 My Dad
(age 3+, single/multiple player)
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HOW TO MAKE 準備
  • 從各級的閱讀練習卡中挑選出要用的字卡 Take out the cards from each level of the Study Cards
級別
字卡
啟蒙級 Beginning Reader
爸、很、朋、友、我、們、說、和、起、玩、開、去、上、的、又、會、花、給、媽、你
萌芽級 Budding Reader
心、為、笑、哥、公
躍進級 Building Reader
話、車、事、謝
信心級 Confident Reader
機、包、送
實力級 Fluent Reader
關、遊、戲、重、感
EXTRA
哥、爸、一、又、媽
  • 列印遊戲紙 Print out the game sheet
  • 請孩子將人物都分別剪下來 Ask your child to cut out all the characters and objects
HOW TO PLAY 玩法
  1. 按照遊戲說,將場景分別排好。(可以自由組合次序或角色) Refer to the instruction sheet. Set up the scenes of each event (it’s OK to do them in the child’s preferred order or combination of characters).
  2. 請孩子從字卡中將正確的字找出來,排成句子。Ask your child to find the word cards and form sentences with them.
  3. 完成後,和爸爸一起拍照留念喔。Take a photo with Dad/Papa/Baba… when it’s done!
ALTERNATIVE WAYS TO PLAY 玩法變化

視乎孩子的情況,你可以調整活動玩法:

Depending on the age of your child, you can increase or decrease the difficulty level of the activity by:

  1. 由一句開始,逐個場景排出句子。年紀稍大的孩子可以一次做2-3句。
  2. 年紀小的孩子,可以由家長排出句子,留空1-2個字由孩子填上。
  3. 年紀大的孩子,可以自己組合新的場景和句子。
  4. 想要人物站起來,可以下載圖樣、製作座架。
  1. Set up the scenes and form the sentences one at a time. Older children can progress to 2-3 scenes and sentences each time.
  2. For younger children, you could lay out most of the sentence and leave out 1-2 characters. Ask your child to fill those in.
  3. For older children, they can form new scenes and sentences.
  4. You could download the template below to make stands to help the characters stand up.
HOW TO PLAY 玩法示範
HOMESCHOOLING TIPS

樂天…樂觀…樂趣!
學習的動力來自樂趣。 當學習內容充滿樂趣、創意和互動性,孩子自然學得好。
多利用遊戲和美術手工,讓孩子在樂趣中學習和成長。

The key to all learning starts with an “F” for fun!
Children learn best when lessons are interesting, exciting, and interactive.
Make it fun for your child with games and crafts, and fuel their growth.

 

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我們會經常為大家探討漢字和語文的課題。
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